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Tuesday, November 29, 2011

when this wind stops

i just found something i wrote 3 months ago, 
after the tornado. 
that storm gave us perspective and we clung to it, 
waiting for the commotion to die down 
so we could finally move on and begin 
to do life differently... 
to somehow do it better.

maybe tomorrow
you and i will follow
that trail...
you and i, maybe.


maybe another day
we'll shoo all our cares away
together,
another day.


'cause when this wind stops
we're pullin' all the stops.
when it dies,
we live and carry on
a new way.

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

today, i choose

today,
dismiss  fear, 
the robber of every good thing. 
it prepares me for nothing. 
it neither braces me for my world that fa l l s    a p a  r    t ,
nor comforts me amidst the rubble. 

today, 
i choose joy, 
the revealer 
of a deeper corner 
of the very heart
of  the One  who  saves me;
the teacher 
of who He truly is. 

and as i learn of Him, i trust Him. 
and my world falls apart. 
and this time i see Him 
picking uP the pieces 
to BUILD FOR ME
an eternal weight of glory.




"Therefore we do not lose heart. 
Even though our outward man is perishing, 
yet the inward man is being renewed day by day. 
For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, 
is working for us a far more exceeding 
and eternal weight of glory, 
while we do not look at the things which are seen, 
but at the things which are not seen. 
For the things which are seen are temporary, 
but the things which are not seen are eternal."
~2 Corinthians 4:16-18

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

moving in (what good is stuff?)

what good is stuff? 
i have enough!
it overwhelms and drowns me.
a twister came and took it all;
for 3 days i was free.
then i remembered all the things
i’d stored and loved and cherished:
gifts and letters, photos, files,
things i thought had perished.
i grieved the losses, one by one,
i cried and laid them down.
and then the notice came 
that we could make the trip downtown
to save the things we thought were lost,
to trash the rest and leave it.
and now, our house is nearly full
of stuff - i can’t believe it!
i spend my days arranging, now,
and often i recall
the day the twister came to town,
the day we lost it all.
i wonder why i work so hard
to sort these things i own...?
then i remember that we’re called
to minister at home -
to make our house a place of rest,
of fellowship and giving.
a place of warmth and comfort,
for loving and for living.
and then i think of other homes 
that do not have so much,
and i wonder why the Lord
has overflown my cup...?
i’m torn between the attitudes
of thanks and sabotage!
i want to throw it all away,
though it may yet serve a cause...
to help me in this funny world
of hoarding and of lacking,
to teach me to be balanced
while i’m moving and unpacking. 
thank You, Jesus, for Your love
and for my stuff. Amen.
help me to be thankful 
that You gave it all again.

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

my hero

a song for my husband - the strong, silent type. after our first natural disaster (tornado) together, i find i have a lot to learn about him...


i see you wincing through the pain
i would wipe the tears away
i feel you trembling in the rain
only i see you this way

i watch you as the days unfold
your patience, wearing thin
i wait to hear you speak to me,
oh baby, let me in 

the wind may blow our shelter down
the calm may never come
the hail may tear our world apart
and lead us far from home
still, in this storm i see you
i see you standing tall
your posture is sky-reaching
though the sky may truly fall
and fall and fall

i see you and i feel you
i would wipe the tears away
i know you and i love you
only i see you this way

i watch you as the days unfold 
your patience, wearing thin
i wait to hear you speak to me,
oh baby, let me in 
my hero

you’re reaching out to me
i’m the only one you hold like this
i feel you pull me in
my hero

Thursday, September 15, 2011

When the Saints

Three weeks and two days ago, I was sitting in my pjs at my computer, listening to my sister’s Sara Groves cd. I was playing and replaying the song, When the Saints, and I had looked up the lyrics online so I could read along as the words so powerfully sang out:
I was interrupted part-way through the song, at one point, by a tornado that ripped through my town and took my home from my husband and me. Chaos and trauma ensued, filling our lives for the next three weeks, threatening to do so even now as I type, and into the days ahead.
A few minutes ago, I was sitting in my parents’ camping chair in my new home, with my stuff surrounding me and emotions running wild. My heart was bursting as I ate my scrambled eggs in front of the computer, listening to When the Saints once again. Only then did I recall exactly what I had been doing when the storm came crashing into our lives those weeks ago: my heart had been bursting then, too, and I had been yearning for something deeper in my soul - a spiritual experience with my Heavenly Father. Something that would change me and make me more real, more charitable, more understanding and more productive in this life for eternity.
I think back again to the devastation caused by the wind, water and hail that afternoon. The memories and news of broken homes and lives cause great heartache. And in my own little life today, I see something. Deduce what you will, but I say this thing is good for me. Maybe the cry of my heart was heard and answered. Maybe something here is happening for eternity and maybe it’s going to be okay.

Monday, May 30, 2011

monday



pouty, irritated, not so motivated;
take it out on husband and friend.
overworked, annoyed, feel a little void,
wanting and not wanting day to end.
this must be a monday,
ridiculous, unfun,
this must be a girl in her own brain.
step outside apartment,
underneath the sun,
close the eyes and let the mercy rain.


cLiCk hEre

Friday, April 8, 2011

i got sucked in.

i'm sitting here in my pjs, teeth unbrushed, breakfast uneaten. ??!!? perfect for a mock-blog.


i got sucked in, how ‘bout you?
facebook, blogspot and youtube,
ebay, etsy, google, yahoo,
twitter and kijiji and a little gmail, too.  
brain fried, hands tied, cold, dark room.
dunno if i might’ve had things to do...

i got sucked in, how ‘bout you?


Thursday, April 7, 2011

i am the missionary

sitting with a friend,
“when will the heartache end?”
tear-stained, worn and trembled;
strengthened while assembled.
broken in the darkness,
“please, somebody help us”
friend from ‘cross the street
wash the other’s feet.
kitchen pantry bare,
“i pray someone will share”.
neighbour, pockets spilled;
giving, cupboards filled.
no need for flights and ferries,
no need to travel ‘round -
i am the missionary; 
i am the mission ground.
wait - no need to hurry;
pray the harvest yield.
you are the missionary;
you are the mission field.
burdens to be carried,
Saviour to be found.
we are the missionary;
we are the mission ground.




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Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Mother Goose

the smell of an old book - 
might’ve been my mom’s...
spots of dirt and candy 
over my son John.
Hey diddle, diddle 
in the middle of the page,
Little Boy Blue 
looking twice his age.
Colours fading, maybe, 
from the girls of Georgie Porgie,
and the Muffet 
on the tuffet’s gone away.
pages thin and tearing 
‘cross the mitts 
the kitts were wearing...
Mary’s garden 
surely knew a better day.
open up and pour 
o’er the joys of childhood ‘lore, 
tap the door at three and four 
until it opens.
it’s been good 
to know you, book,
to step inside 
and take a look...
reminding of the 
good and fun of hopin’.
spots of dirt and candy.
colours fading, maybe.
pages thin and torn.
joys of childhood ‘lore.
the smell of an old book - 
might’ve been my mom’s.




Monday, March 21, 2011

trail to freedom

Christ offers incredible liberty that often conflicts with our traditions, thinking, behaviour, etc. 
this can make the path to freedom more painful than the enslavement itself. i felt the urge to get off that path and remain mediocre, in bonds. but at the end of the day, i still found myself wanting more. so i move forward, however slowly or alone.




fallen off the wagon
on the trail to freedom,
trodden under feet with balls and chains.
wave ‘so long’ to liberty
let it cast away to sea
slap the cuffs on - 
this is how we came.

we’ve gone this road before,
it’s simple: you and i want more,
it’s painful: opening our eyes
in this light.

fallen off the wagon
on the trail to freedom
trodden under feet with balls and chains
wave ‘so long’ to liberty
let it cast away to sea
slap the cuffs on - 
drag us through the rain.

we’ve gone this road before,
it’s simple: you and i want more,
it’s painful: opening our eyes
in this light.
let’s go there one more time,
we need to show them how and why
they need to open up their eyes
in this light.










Monday, March 14, 2011

tired of reaching

i’m tired of reaching out
tired of standing tall
i cannot find my footing
and i fear that i may fall
it’s too much to endure
my spirit cannot hope
my body aches and weakens
like a withered, fraying rope
tired of reaching
done with seeing
Someone fill my cup!
stretch out Your hand
and grip me tightly
lift me,
lift me up
my eyes are dimming, squinting
my ears no longer hear
my mouth can form no words of peace
it only whispers fear
i’ll wait for You awhile
if You say that You will come
come and free me, give me hope,
and point my gaze toward home

Monday, February 21, 2011

everything is learning

listening to songs, over and over
to be dancing
to be distracted
to be learning
how to move the world with lyrics and melodies
going for a walk all around town
to be a sight-seer
to be active
to be learning
how to be strong when i’m alone
sorting photos on my living room floor
to be orderly
to be minimal
to be learning
how to let go and how to remember
visiting my sister and her sons
to be out of the house
to be with somebody else
to be learning
how to mother and how to love
cooking supper for my husband
to be well-fed
to be a wife
to be learning
how we can be a better me and a better him
everything is learning